Household friction often stems from invisible labour. A living ops manual turns essential tasks into shared routines, freeing mental space for everyone.
Document the Essentials
Centralise key info
List bills, direct debits, emergency contacts, and recurring tasks. Citizens Advice recommends keeping crucial documents accessible for unexpected events.[1]
Automate updates
Use Chaos to ping reminders for renewals, meter readings, and medication refills. Tag each with the responsible person to spread the load.
Design Shared Routines
Weekly stand-ups
Hold a 10-minute household check-in. The assistant surfaces overdue tasks and highlights wins, encouraging a culture of appreciation.
Task rotations
Rotate responsibilities monthly to avoid burnout. Link to our new parent systems for childcare-specific tips.
Keep It Accessible
Use multiple formats
Create a digital manual plus a printed quick reference. Visual aids support ADHD and autistic family members who prefer concrete cues.
When everyone knows what needs doing and when, households feel calmer. Chaos keeps the manual alive so no one has to play household manager alone.